Hiding disappointment behind your words is perhaps the biggest favor you can do to yourself and the rest of the world. It is a pretty well known fact that no one cares and no one wants to listen to you talk about how disappointed you are with a particular thing or event or person, or how bummed out you are about it. You might as well shut up and save yourself the embarrassment/pain/shock however you might want to take it.
Easy way? Write.
I think I've been giving way too much advice to everyone about how they should write if they don't want to talk. Talk about talking like a know-it-all, precisely the kind of people I detest. But, since I have proof that it works, I have a right to talk like a know-it-all.Yeah like, write. Best thing ever, write and tear that shit up. Even more helpful. But people are way too lazy to actually put pen to paper, even me. And face it, typing is faster, your hands don't pain as much etc etc. Yes yes, take the easy way out as long as you do what you're supposed to, if that even makes sense, which I'm sure doesn't, then you're way too stupid to be reading this post.
Its not just disappointment, there's anger too. And a whole bunch of other things. But I talk only from experience, therefore, this post will not turn into a self-help thing about how to channel your emotions and what not. You have the Chicken Soup books for that. Go read.
Gym is like the best place ever. Why you might ask? One, you see really cute guys working out and lifting weights, or girls working out, if that's what you prefer. And then people like me, who have anger issues, grudge issues and what not, can very successfully take it out on the elliptical and no one takes a punch to their nose or a slap to their cheek, literally. Its all for the good of the mankind. Trust me. Oh and I firmly believe does not have anger issues if one knows where to channel them. No violence does not count as the right channel. Gymming does, something productive does. People's definition of productive might differ, of course. Lets just leave it at, as long as you don't kill someone, you're good.
Food calls me, like always. If this makes sense to you, you can safely assume you're extremely intelligent and well- read. If it doesn't, well, do I have to say it? Yes I can be discriminatory. Fun isn't it?
Easy way? Write.
I think I've been giving way too much advice to everyone about how they should write if they don't want to talk. Talk about talking like a know-it-all, precisely the kind of people I detest. But, since I have proof that it works, I have a right to talk like a know-it-all.Yeah like, write. Best thing ever, write and tear that shit up. Even more helpful. But people are way too lazy to actually put pen to paper, even me. And face it, typing is faster, your hands don't pain as much etc etc. Yes yes, take the easy way out as long as you do what you're supposed to, if that even makes sense, which I'm sure doesn't, then you're way too stupid to be reading this post.
Its not just disappointment, there's anger too. And a whole bunch of other things. But I talk only from experience, therefore, this post will not turn into a self-help thing about how to channel your emotions and what not. You have the Chicken Soup books for that. Go read.
Gym is like the best place ever. Why you might ask? One, you see really cute guys working out and lifting weights, or girls working out, if that's what you prefer. And then people like me, who have anger issues, grudge issues and what not, can very successfully take it out on the elliptical and no one takes a punch to their nose or a slap to their cheek, literally. Its all for the good of the mankind. Trust me. Oh and I firmly believe does not have anger issues if one knows where to channel them. No violence does not count as the right channel. Gymming does, something productive does. People's definition of productive might differ, of course. Lets just leave it at, as long as you don't kill someone, you're good.
Food calls me, like always. If this makes sense to you, you can safely assume you're extremely intelligent and well- read. If it doesn't, well, do I have to say it? Yes I can be discriminatory. Fun isn't it?
waiting for u write some more soon-ish :)
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thank you :) It always feels nice when people appreciate your work.
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