Showing posts with label Sexist. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Sexist. Show all posts

Friday, September 13, 2013

Senior Year Sadness

The end of summer is always bittersweet. There is the excitement of a new semester and the depressing fact that you're going to have to stop being lazy and step up your game. When summer began, as usual I did not realize that three months in India would pass by in the blink of an eye. Yet, like every single time, I wish I had done a lot of things during the time that I did nothing.
Three years later, and the flight back does not get any easier. If anything, it gets tougher. This time around, there was the uncertainty of not knowing when I will go back home again. There was also the doubt and the questions about what I am going to do with the rest of my life. Considering graduation is less than a year away. If you thought school was fun and you absolutely loved it and never want to leave, think again. College is 5 times that.
I really do have mixed feelings about graduating. Quiet often, the thought of coming back to school after graduation has crossed my mind. If only to escape the real world. But really, how long can that go on for anyway? There's the reluctance to take on all this responsibility but there's also the excitement of earning my own money and shopping. My apartment isn't helping either. I am so used to living in a brand new apartment with all these facilities and my amazing roommate, only after 2 weeks, that I definitely do not want to leave. But real life calls.
Looking down on first years in disdain is the true sign of being a senior. First years, not freshmen, because that's sexist. The other day when a friend said everyone who is "manning" the tables was told by me that that's pretty sexist and "womanning" should also be a word.
I realized today evening I haven't written a blog post in practically four months. When I told my roommate, her first question was what exactly did I do the entire summer. Well, eat and sleep I told her. What else was my summer for? Apart from a ton of family drama, an internship where I learnt how to tie a fishtail braid, a failed attempt at studying Business Law, brushing up on my really rusty gujju cooking skills and of course, all the Hindi serial/soap operas/ dramas. Such an eventful summer this was.
Also the picture that won my heart last night (source: http://imgur.com/gallery/Rf4pbT5)



My roommate and I had a hysterical fit of laughter when we saw this picture. Upon close inspection, the fact that the balloons are red and the rest of the picture has no color made us laugh even harder. For the life of me I cannot figure out whether it was the picture that set us off or the lack of food or the late hour. It's still hilarious though. Tim really doesn't give a shit. See how he took off without his feet? Brb after another round of hysterical laughter. 

Monday, April 23, 2012

unrelated tangents

It does not bother me when people say I have extremist views when it comes to women's rights. Neither does it bother me when I am called a  feminist. I prefer to have an opinion, albeit a strong one, than having no opinion at all. I'd rather feel strongly about something and have be loud and opinionated than shut up and have no opinion about it.
I belong to the female gender and therefore am more concerned about gender violence against females. There are more males than females in the world and therefore, enough of the male gender to care about their rights. Some men should stop making this about them. It has nothing to do with their rights, it just has to do with women's rights. And hey, if you have such a big problem with how women are fighting for their rights, why don't you just give them what they want? That's what you think women need anyway, give them what they want and they'll shut up.
It makes me really mad when I read in the papers that girls, not even women, get raped left right and center. And the society says he girl asked for it. The day these women snap, you will be left with absolutely no words in your mouth. Speechlessness will take on a new meaning. If men shut the dirty parts of their brains, perhaps they might not think every girl is asking for it. How are you asking to get raped if you're wearing a salwar kameez? What do you want the society to do? Wear a sack? Oh wait, the society will figure out a problem with that one too. After all, we are a patriarchal society, where men make rules for women for the benefit of other men.
I am fully appreciative of the numerous exceptions that exist in the male gender. However, that does not right the wrong done.




Favorite picture? Yes please. If I could, I would say this to so many people. You'd be surprised at how many people I have on that list. I love verbally dueling people.
And I've been discovering online comics left right and center. I practically went through one entire site right now. It is hilarious. and Indian. And just couldn't resist. After all, you get a laptop to class to multi-task, right? I discover these comic-strip sites online so randomly sometimes I don't even remember how I got there. For lack of a better word, or the right word, I call them comic-strip sites. Which does not decrease their awesomeness in anyway.
I go off on completely unrelated tangents sometimes. That's exactly what happens when I leave a blog post unfinished and come back to it when I procrastinate. Today was Procrastination level 400. One of my friends thought I wished there was a class like that. I told him I do enough of it on my own to want a class.
Ending on a cold and miserable note, I wish the weather would cheer up. Not that I am a fan of sunny weather. I am the most un-sunniest person you'll come across, but but but, rain wind and cold in April is just not right. But you gotta do what you gotta do, and go to class wearing a jacket you thought you could finally pack away because it was summer. Sure.